Finding Your Identity as a Lady Bellator: A Journey of Healing and Divine Purpose

By Eileen Noyes

Jan 08, 2025

Eileen Noyes, host of The Unsidelined Life podcast and former NFL wife, has dedicated her life to helping women discover their true identity in Christ. Through her personal experiences navigating the complexities of being a high-profile wife and dealing with physical and emotional healing, she has developed a unique perspective on what it means to be a strong, faith-filled woman in today's world. Her journey from physical rehabilitation following hip surgery to spiritual awakening has shaped her mission to help women break free from societal expectations and embrace their God-given purpose. In this powerful exploration of healing, identity, and divine purpose, we'll discover how the concept of being a Lady Bellator - a royal warrior - can transform how we see ourselves and our relationship with God.


The Power of Physical and Spiritual Healing


Physical healing often mirrors our spiritual journey, as Eileen discovered through her experience with hip problems. After years of compensating for hip issues that began during her last pregnancy, she finally underwent hip replacement surgery. This physical transformation opened her eyes to how long she had been operating at less than her full potential, much like many women who have become accustomed to living with spiritual or emotional wounds.


The parallel between physical and spiritual healing becomes even more apparent when we consider how one part of the body affecting the whole mirrors our connection as the body of Christ. When we're wounded in one area, whether physical or spiritual, it impacts every aspect of our lives and those around us.


Just as physical therapy requires intentional effort and consistency, spiritual healing demands dedication to prayer, scripture, and personal growth. Through this process, we often discover strengths and capabilities we didn't know we possessed, leading to a more fulfilled and purposeful life.


Embracing Your Royal Identity


Understanding our true identity as daughters of God fundamentally changes how we approach life's challenges. The concept of Lady Bellator beautifully captures this dual nature of being both royalty (Lady) and warrior (Bellator), reflecting our position in God's kingdom and our calling to spiritual warfare.


This royal identity isn't about wearing a crown or living in luxury; it's about understanding our authority in Christ and our place in His kingdom. When we truly grasp this concept, it transforms how we pray, how we handle stress, and how we interact with others in our sphere of influence.


Many women, especially those in high-profile positions, struggle with feeling like they must maintain a perfect facade. However, embracing our royal identity in Christ frees us from these societal pressures and allows us to walk in authentic power and purpose.


The Lady Bellator Framework


The Lady Bellator concept isn't just a catchy name - it's a comprehensive framework for understanding our identity in Christ. Here's what each letter represents:


Lives for the Lord

Anointed and assigned by the Lord

Delights in the Lord

Yields to the Lord


Bold in convictions

Elevates others

Loves wholeheartedly

Leads humbly

Advances the kingdom

True to who God made you to be

Overcomes obstacles with grace

Resilient and ready for battle


Walking in Your Warrior Spirit


The warrior aspect of being a Lady Bellator isn't about physical combat but about engaging in spiritual warfare through prayer and declaration. This involves using the "sword" of scripture-based prayers and the "scepter" of declaring our identity in Christ.


When we understand our role as spiritual warriors, we approach challenges differently. Instead of feeling victimized by circumstances, we recognize our authority to pray powerful prayers and make declarations based on God's word, much like using Psalm 91 to declare protection over our families.


This warrior spirit isn't about aggression or dominance; it's about standing firm in our faith and fighting for our families, marriages, and communities through prayer and spiritual warfare. It's about recognizing that we're called to take territory for God's kingdom, not through force, but through love, wisdom, and spiritual authority.


Stepping Into Your Divine Purpose


As we enter this new year, let's embrace our identity as Lady Bellators - women who understand both their royal heritage and their warrior calling. The journey of healing and self-discovery might be challenging, but it's through these challenges that we grow stronger in our faith and more confident in our purpose. Whether you're dealing with physical healing, emotional wounds, or spiritual growth, remember that you are anointed and assigned by God for a specific purpose.


Take the first step by committing to daily declarations of your identity in Christ, engaging in scripture-based prayer, and surrounding yourself with other women who are pursuing their divine purpose. Your journey as a Lady Bellator starts now, and your transformation will not only impact your life but will also inspire and elevate those around you.


Let's make this year one of breakthroughs, healing, and stepping fully into who God has called us to be. Remember, you are not just surviving - you are called to thrive as a daughter of the King and a warrior in His kingdom.



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